They say a lot of stuff, then the normal, reasonable JW person picks and chooses carefully according to the life they want for themselves.
As much as the WTBTS opposes higher education, all in our family and many others in the cong are all either attending college or making arrangements to attend once they graduate high school.
As much as they rant on not attending prom, our graduates in my family are attending.
Times are changing. The WTBTS is not as relevant, not many 'orthodox' JWs inside anymore. People are tired of nonsense.
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